Same Sex Attraction

[JocelynTorrent]

Do you think the males getting upset over physical relationships is more of a testosterone driven thing? Even if they're the most respectful man in the world, I think he would still be more upset that something he thought was 'his' was just taken and soiled. Sex=masculinity for some, right? Ownership. Domination. All very subtle and hormone driven, no fault of the guys themselves. Just a thought. Who knows.

Degrassi rocks. And, hey, Cyborg, on that show, Paige was gay

[azb]

I knew about Paige! And I just realised Kristanna Loken plays a Paige on The L Word. You would know this, but still. Lol. Fest.

[JocelynTorrent]

it's a creepy connection is what it is.

[antonia18]

Hey,

i don´t know exacly when i knew. But I've always liked the relationship between Tara and Willow. (or women in general)
Or even between Xena and Gabrielle, even if there were only slight hints in the series

But i think i was to young to understand it at that times.. (i would say with 14 years..)
And in my younger years I did not even know how my parents and friends would react . just a little bit scard

But I would say that the ideas or imagination was present.
I already had several relationships with men.
But the interest in women is also available. I would say that I'm bi. although I prefer relationships with women.




and i think i did a bit mistake last saturday. i mean i don´t regret it in general (because i know she loved it and i could make her feel realy good ) but fell a little bit guilty. i mean she is maried. ( she is a realy good friend of mine and we went on a 80s party last saturday and got realy drunk)


I know that some problem runs in their relationship (in their sex live were just her husband comes to finish) and feel as if I had taken advantage of the situation. (and i just want to make her feel good...well)

I even told her that too I can not do that because she is married. But then she says that she would have been imagined several times and then one thing led Well but on the other.

And i dit happen in the morning too. So i can not say it was just we were too drunk.

its so complicated. we talked about it she dosen´t regret it ether but she wont say a think to her husband. and i don´t know but i would do it again if she does the first step... ahhh can i call it friends with benefits?

(and i am sorry for my bad gramatik)

[azb]

Oh, gosh. That sounds tricky.

Personally, I wouldn't get into a friends with benefits type situation with her, because, well, marriage is tricky. But it's up to you, and if you think it's worth it, then go for it. But maybe encourage her to speak to her husband, because it sounds as though she's unhappy, and that's not fair to anyone.

[Deleted]

I second that cyborg. You have several things to consider, most of all that she is married. Also, what if your feelings go beyond the bounds of friends with benefits, in which case, she isn't able to do anything about it because she's married. Tread very carefully, is my advice.

[antonia18]

mh yeah i know. and i don´t think that this were as good for me or my friend.

but the problem is if she would want to do something again i think i would accommodate to her.

[hazeleyes1990]

If she does want to again, then make sure its something she actually wants, not just to get some affection- that she actually wants you! Otherwise its not going to mean anything- and if you DO end up developing feelings for her then it'll hurt more if you know she doesn't feel the same after the experience you've had together. Be careful lovie! xx

[antonia18]

why must love be so complicated?

[Enjorous]

Because anything worth having is never easy?